a weekend in Shanghai

Nathan and Shanghai skyline

Nathan went to Shanghai over the weekend to visit a friend of ours that we met right around the time when Sophia was born. Since then, he got his PhD here at the TU Berlin, and then he returned to China. He was apparently the perfect host, showing Nathan around and refusing any kind of present or well-meant gesture. ;) At any rate, our friend and his wife will have a child soon... and Nathan suggested that'll be our time to reciprocate. Here is his account of the weekend:

Last night I went to dinner with Jianpei... it turned out that his wife had another engagement, so I didn't get to meet her, unfortunately. I guess he also isn't feeling all that well. I was totally surprised, because he sent me a text message just before we were supposed to meet saying that he was at the hospital getting "tropfen(be)handlung" and that he would meet me a little while later. (He of course showed up almost exactly on time.) Of course in Germany of the US, you only get an IV if you have a serious illness or something, but here it is far more commonplace. I guess he had a bad headache and decided to take himself to the clinic. I felt kind of bad, but he insisted there was no problem.

Before I met him I had bought a nice box of oranges to give him and his wife (here they take fruit and wrap it really nicely for giving as gifts) and he refused to take it. He also insisted on paying for just about everything we did together yesterday. He was too generous -- while I enjoyed the visit, he made it difficult to be on an equal level. For the last period of time I kept trying to find ways to get him to take the oranges, but he just wouldn't go for it. The guy is clever. Anyway, if he and/or his family ever visit Berlin again we need to reciprocate. When the baby is born we need to send something. By the way, the local tradition is eggs if it's a boy, chocolate if it's a girl. But I don't think that'll work via the mail...

flowers on a pond in Shanghai